Learning to Love Yourself, One Tip at a Time

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Self-love is different for everyone. Each person has their own way of loving themselves and they aren’t always easy. In fact, the process doesn’t grant you instant results—it’s a journey that requires time, patience, and a whole lot of self-awareness; a path that often starts with making the right choices for yourself. 

You may have come across moments in your life where you think you’ve got it all figured out and that’s completely fine. In fact, you might even be at your best self right now. That, however, doesn’t mean you can’t squeeze in pockets for improvement. In the end, the path to truly loving yourself all boils down to your actions and carrying them out positively and consistently. 

If you’re one of the many who wish to jumpstart another chapter of self-love in their lives, you’ve come to the right place. Here are a few tips to get you started, one day at a time!

Start writing your daily reflections in a journal.

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A journal can be your next best friend in this personal journey of yours. Even as simple as jotting down a few bullet points of what you’re most grateful for in a day can do so much in the long run. You can also start by writing about new things you’ve learned, friends you’ve just met, or even the funniest meme you happen to stumble upon on the internet. 

Think of your journal as a time capsule where you can store some of the most personal moments in your life in one safe place. This way, if you need a little boost in motivation or a simple reminder of how far you have come, you can open your journal and read through the pages. Trust us, you’ll appreciate jotting all those memories down in the years to come. 

Pursue your interests because they make you happy. 

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With many empowered individuals seeking to find hobbies to excel in, it’s easy to fall under the spell of making a profit out of them. While your interests keep you productive, they should also catalyse happiness and personal growth. 

You don’t need to jump on the success bandwagon right away—simply do what you love because you love them, not because they’ll grant you comfort in the end. That doesn’t have to happen right away. Take your time, explore your interests, and pursue the ones that keep your creative juices flowing no matter what stage your life is in at the moment. 

Treat yourself on a date. 

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Who says you can’t plan a date for yourself? It’s totally possible! A solo date allows you to spend quality time with yourself—and is incredibly fun too! Self-love practices differ from one person to another but if you’re looking for something foolproof to start with, treating yourself is a good way to go. 

Start by stacking your beauty essentials for a home spa getaway or ordering a full course meal from your favourite restaurant. No matter how big or small the activity is, the most important point to remember is that you deserve special treatment. Treating yourself can go a long way, even if it’s just a few times in a month. 

Invest your time in those you hold close to your heart. 

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A little time for yourself is good but good vibes are often contagious, especially if they come from those you care deeply about. Whether they are your family members or best friends, spending time around fulfilling relationships are good for your mental and emotional well-being. 

That said, set aside a few hours of your busy schedule to hang out, have fun, and most of all, cherish all the moments with special people. Your presence and full attention will always be appreciated, especially when you reach out during the busiest times of the year. 

Get your beauty sleep. 

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This tip may be simple but getting enough beauty sleep is actually pretty difficult, especially when you have a lot on your plate. You may have a lot running through your mind, keeping you up until the wee hours of the morning. Even if it’s hard to resist, you also can’t force yourself to snooze off when you don’t want to. 

A busy mind and a tired body is not always a good combo. If you find yourself getting exhausted day by day, we suggest listening to your body’s needs. Are you getting enough beauty rest? If not, keep your mind at ease by doing a few stretches, brewing a cup of calming tea, or read something new and interesting—anything that will relax your senses until you drift to dreamland. Trust us, the more sleep you get, the better you will feel as you power through the day! 

Got some foolproof self-love tips you’d want to share? We’re all for it! Tell us about your journey to finding self-love through our social media handles! 

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